What defines a bad or dangerous spiritual path?
There are some so-called spiritual paths that are inherently bad or dangerous. But even a good path can be dangerous if we do not follow it wisely. If we fail to take responsibility for ourselves, accepting a set of beliefs without questioning, we put ourselves at risk. Danger also lurks when we rely on the path to become our nurturer in order to bolster a fragile ego.
Some young people join the military service because their lives do not provide them with the support and discipline that they need. The service gives them a purpose and a sense of belonging. It becomes, in effect, their supportive parent. As soldiers, they know what is expected of them, and feel protected. The security and discipline that the military provides serves to alleviate feelings of confusion and anxiety. Of course, once on the battlefield, those feelings can easily resurface.
Sometimes, we follow a spiritual path for similar reasons, looking to it for security and support. This can be dangerous if we are using the path to escape deep emotional needs, rather than addressing those needs through some form of counseling or psychotherapy. Not until we recognize and accept our needs will we be able to set our ego defence aside - a precondition for spiritual growth. When we follow a path without setting our ego defence aside, we risk adding disappointment and a sense of failure to an already troubled mind.
There are some paths that are harmful in and of themselves. These are paths that promote a rigid doctrine, demand absolute loyalty, and forbid questioning. Those of us with damaged ego systems are particularly vulnerable. We are led to believe that the path offers salvation and will take care of us into eternity. When it fails to provide for our needs, the disappointment may have serious psychological consequences. This is a high price to pay for the illusion of well-being.
